How often has one of your friends said to you”what planet are you on?” Iknow that has been asked of me many times. Sometimes it’s a joke, and other times its because we may be behaving unrealistically, or are somehow just out of it! As circumstances re the pandemic continue to effect and restrict ourContinue reading “BONKAS TWO”
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FINE AND BONKAS
Hi I’m fine and also Bonkas, have you noticed people are really amazing and not always truthful.? I have a son with Autism so I’m accustomed to him, and of course others, using that response when asked, How are you? For him he needs to deny any feeling of unwellness so he can continue toContinue reading “FINE AND BONKAS”
stop look listen
In the last few weeks people seem to be throwing caution to the winds , rather than seeing their choices restricted they are acting as if they had no choices,and as though other new choices couldn’t be made.Remember the old pedestrian crossing code ”stop, look, listen”look left, look right, look left again, if everything isContinue reading “stop look listen”
pounding and unravelling TAG resilience
When I was a child my mother used to rip out garments we had outgrown and knit them into something else for the next child down the line. She was a skilled knitter and so she could pull the ripped wool tight and knit it up like new, but unravelling within us can be fearfulContinue reading “pounding and unravelling TAG resilience”
unfolding or unravelling tag breaks
Hi, if you read these blogs you will know that I have been on an unscheduled break, and if you are anything like me you have been finding the heat hard to stick. Breaks are central to our good health and enjoyment and this has come to the fore in the last months as peopleContinue reading “unfolding or unravelling tag breaks”
unfolding the unbearable tag containing balance and holding
In the year 1970 three beautiful babies were born to three mothers on the same day. Martha’s baby was born breech and had to be delivered with forceps. Jillian’s was born normally, and Francis’s was born by caesarean section. Let’s imagine for the purpose of understanding regression and unfolding that each of these children grewContinue reading “unfolding the unbearable tag containing balance and holding”
in aoibheann thoughful reflections IM CRACKING UP TAG CRACKING AND SPLITING
In the metaphor about the banquet cloth people had different reactions at the first unfolding, there was terror, freezing, and staying with the experience unfolding and or pressure can cause real fear , fear of losing control and in plain language of going mad. The truth is we are all a bit mad especially atContinue reading “in aoibheann thoughful reflections IM CRACKING UP TAG CRACKING AND SPLITING”
UNFOLDING SAFETY TAG RELATIONSHIP
In the last blog I used a metaphor of a banquet cloth being carried to the table to spread it out for the banquet. The cloth was large and required two people to carry it so it could be laid out and examined to see if it needed cleaning for the great event. When theContinue reading “UNFOLDING SAFETY TAG RELATIONSHIP”
CREEPING TWO TAG UNFOLDING
The development of a normal child doesn’t always involve creeping before walking, sometimes they suddenly set off and almost run, these development stages are often watched with delight, love joy pride to mention just a few feelings, and the little one is praised and encouraged to keep it up some parents will even log theseContinue reading “CREEPING TWO TAG UNFOLDING”
creeping tag fear confidence face
Have you noticed how a baby begins to crawl and the process by which he/she gains confidence eventually, after a period of time realising they can stand if they can just get a grip of something to hold onto. Next, watching in the wings there is a doting parent who praises the child as thoughContinue reading “creeping tag fear confidence face”
aoibheann thoughtful reflections 